Gay-Stared.
If a straight
man is being 'eyed up' by a gay man, he is being 'Gared at'.
If the
partner of said straight man is being stared at by said gay (in a "how dare you be with him"
way), she is being 'Gared down'.
Oh my God, can we go somewhere
else, I
keep being 'Gared at'.
If he tries to
gare me down once more, I'm going to go over there and steal his Les Mis CD.