When you open a nice two liter coke and shit in it. Next, you shake it up and make your partner open it. Watch and enjoy as shit and coke spew all over them.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.