A "dirtycerda" is when a player dumps a girl while she's pregnant and shows his child off like a new shinytoy.
After dude's been bumpin' on a mattress, spreadin' his seed; he dumps his pregnant lady and comes back after the baby is born to pretend like he's a good dad and shows the baby off to his friends and family. Upon returning the baby to your custody you realize.....That dirtycerda left a bad taste in your mouth. He gave you a dirtycerda.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.