A Fudley Dudley is a alcoholic thats entire day consists of trying to get alchohol by asking for money from family and friends and then proceeding to walk to the convenience store and buy alchohol, preferably beer and or cheap wine. Then proceeding to walk home and get drunk and pass out and then repeat the process the next day.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.