When you get off the toilet and then have to pee. Basically it's a bodily function that happens a bit later after you have done one already. Why couldn't it just all cone at once?
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.