Someone who looks like they changed in the dark, but sad to say that's the way they dress.
You see one of your friends who looks like a mess with what they're wearing so you say things like I like that, I like that where you get that at etc. Your friend starts to tell you and you say Nahh man I'm just cappin ya head up
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.