A game requiring 3 people, with at least one, if not all being a Male. One person is blindfolded and on their knees and blindfolded with their mouth wide open. A male, fully erect, stands over the person on their knees and begins moving towards the person on their knees, and continues moving forward, inserting his penis into this other person's mouth, without touching any part of the person's mouth. The 3rd person acts as a Judge to make sure that the Plain (the imaginery line between the top and bottom lips) is broken by the Penis and that there is no contact between the Penis and mouth
"Hey guys, there's 3 of us, lets go play 'Break the Plain'"
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
FRIEND A: "Did you just take a stealthie of me?"
FRIEND B (turning phone around): "no I was just using snapchat's new filter, see?"
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”