When a Desperate Single Mom wants a baby daddy and targets a guy who meets her profile to get control over him.
Tactics: Find nice guy with good job and lovebomb. Fantasy sex & massive ego strokes. She falls too fast. It feels TOO perfect.
Reinvents herself to look like his ideal woman. If he loves meat, sheâs done with
vegetarian. If heâs into rope play, sheâs suddenly âdiscoveredâ she is too!
She stalks his social media for clues about his likes, dislikes to
fake that sheâs his soul mate. Schemes to isolate him from exes or anyone else who might get in her way.
Says her ex a deadbeat or abusive, casts herself as the victim. (In reality, many Desperate Single Moms failed at baby trapping.)
Different than gold-digging. Baiters seek men who are caring and responsible vs men with
money. They look for decent, trusting guys to manipulate. They often target single dads, especially with
children close in age/
gender/looks to their own and pimp those feelings of love.
Tho single mothers can fall in love, baiting ainât that. Itâs a coldly calculating ploy to enslave the man to provide for another manâs child. She knows she can easily guilt-trip a decent man into staying after her child gets attached.
If it sticks, the control established in this grooming phase gets worse.
Children, especially
girls, from the first marriage are often the silent victims of this
fuckery.
Dan: I canât believe how perfect Angela is for me. Itâs like she can read my mind! And the
kids get along great!
Mike: Have you figured out how youâ
re going to put 3
kids through college, D?
Dan: Weâre IN LOVE. Weâll figure it out!
Mike: (Smacks Dan in the nutsack)
Yo. Snap out of it. This smells like daddy baiting.