ABCM

A term used by queer people on dating apps that means they will date "anyone but cisgender men." An ABCM is interested in cisgender women, trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people, but not men who were assigned male at birth. A less restrictive version of T4T.

Depending on the context, this can suggest that they believe transgender men are not real men (once a woman, always a woman), but many bi people hold this boundary only online and would be happy to date a cisgender man they met in person and felt safe with. Others are primarily concerned with reducing the risk of pregnancy.

Dating profile: 25 | Virgo | ABCM

Person 1: Would you date a girl who says she prefers ABCM?
Trans man: I wouldn't mind that, but I might feel dysphoric if she referred to herself as a lesbian while she was dating me.

ABCM by transmothman July 25, 2022

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ABCM

A term used by queer people on dating apps that means they will date "anyone but cisgender men." An ABCM is interested in cisgender women, trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people, but not men who were assigned male at birth.

Depending on the context, this can suggest that they believe transgender men are not real men (once a woman, always a woman), but many bi people hold this boundary only online and would be happy to date a cisgender man they met in person and felt safe with. Others are primarily concerned with reducing the risk of pregnancy. Additionally, many trans people use this label as a less restrictive version of T4T.

Dating profile: 25 | Virgo | ABCM

Person 1: Would you date a girl who says she prefers ABCM?
Trans man: I wouldn't mind that, but I might feel dysphoric if she referred to herself as a lesbian while she was dating me.

ABCM by transmothman July 25, 2022

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abcMouse

An educational platform with a creepy ass teacher who stares into your soul and runs to many ads on TV

My kid has improved since he/she started using abcMouse

abcMouse by Vormix June 12, 2018

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ABCMF

Acronym meaning: “Ay, Buddha, Check My Fit!”
Used when you want a friend, s/o, or stranger to “check” or rate your outfit.
That person is referred to as “Buddha” because their fits are near godly levels and thus highly sought after.

Me: ABCMF
Friend: 4/10 your Vans got some holes and bleach stains, check yourself.

ABCMF by When’s dad coming home? March 19, 2020

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ABCMF

Acronym meaning: “At, Buddha, Check My Fit!”
Used when you want a friend, s/o, or stranger to “check” or rate your outfit.

Me: ABCMF!
Friend: 6/10 you’ve got holes in your Vans 🤷🏻 ♂️

ABCMF by When’s dad coming home? March 18, 2020

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abcmeliosss

an amazing tiktoker who’s irl name is maddie 😊(aka me lol)! i like to make people happy with my content and make sure that people don’t bully others! :) 💕

i really like this tiktoker called abcmeliosss!

abcmeliosss by mqds October 27, 2021

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