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A term used by queer people on dating apps that means they will date "anyone but cisgender men." An ABCM is interested in cisgender women, trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people, but not men who were assigned male at birth. A less restrictive version of T4T.

Depending on the context, this can suggest that they believe transgender men are not real men (once a woman, always a woman), but many bi people hold this boundary only online and would be happy to date a cisgender man they met in person and felt safe with. Others are primarily concerned with reducing the risk of pregnancy.
Dating profile: 25 | Virgo | ABCM

Person 1: Would you date a girl who says she prefers ABCM?
Trans man: I wouldn't mind that, but I might feel dysphoric if she referred to herself as a lesbian while she was dating me.
ABCM by transmothman July 25, 2022
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A term used by queer people on dating apps that means they will date "anyone but cisgender men." An ABCM is interested in cisgender women, trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people, but not men who were assigned male at birth.

Depending on the context, this can suggest that they believe transgender men are not real men (once a woman, always a woman), but many bi people hold this boundary only online and would be happy to date a cisgender man they met in person and felt safe with. Others are primarily concerned with reducing the risk of pregnancy. Additionally, many trans people use this label as a less restrictive version of T4T.
Dating profile: 25 | Virgo | ABCM

Person 1: Would you date a girl who says she prefers ABCM?
Trans man: I wouldn't mind that, but I might feel dysphoric if she referred to herself as a lesbian while she was dating me.
ABCM by transmothman July 25, 2022

abcMouse 

An educational platform with a creepy ass teacher who stares into your soul and runs to many ads on TV
My kid has improved since he/she started using abcMouse
abcMouse by Vormix June 12, 2018
Acronym meaning: “Ay, Buddha, Check My Fit!”
Used when you want a friend, s/o, or stranger to “check” or rate your outfit.
That person is referred to as “Buddha” because their fits are near godly levels and thus highly sought after.
Me: ABCMF
Friend: 4/10 your Vans got some holes and bleach stains, check yourself.
Acronym meaning: “At, Buddha, Check My Fit!”
Used when you want a friend, s/o, or stranger to “check” or rate your outfit.
Me: ABCMF!
Friend: 6/10 you’ve got holes in your Vans 🤷🏻 ♂️

abcmeliosss

an amazing tiktoker who’s irl name is maddie 😊(aka me lol)! i like to make people happy with my content and make sure that people don’t bully others! :) 💕
i really like this tiktoker called abcmeliosss!
abcmeliosss by mqds October 27, 2021
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The striver is an interesting phenomenon that is seen across college campuses. In essence, the striver is an over-achiever who comes from a working or middle class family. He may be an immigrant. He may have been a slacker in HS who was "born again" into an academic wunderkind. Or he may just be an over-achiever who is keeping at it.

The striver is willing to sacrifice his social life at the expense of Phi Beta Kappa and Summa Cum Laude. The striver is the guy who stays at the library long after you are gone. The striver is the guy who takes 30 credits/semester and considers anything below an A/4.0 failure. The striver doesn't work on campus, he is too busy finding ways to pad his resume instead of working retail or workstudy. The striver lets his grades pay his education by applying to ten scholarships a year.

The striver is a future Soros/Fullbright/Rhodes/Gates/Marshall/etc. fellow. The striver lives to study. For the striver, their fun comes from the rewards they expect to receive in return for their diligence. Be it Law School, B-School, academia, or politics. The striver seeks to find the American Dream through academic success.
Anthony was a striver. He transfered from a TTT to an IVY and graduated in 2 years. He studied his ass off and went to Penn Law. He got a Biglaw offer. But lost it all because of an unmoderated mesasgeboard.

Successful strivers:
- Barack Obama
- Harold Koh
Striver by URM Striver January 3, 2009
Word of the Day on August 15, 2026

SkyPesos 

Delta SkyMiles, also known as SkyPesos, is the frequent flyer program of Delta Airlines. It has a very poor value and hard to use.
- I'm trying to book an award flight to Paris, but I only have 70,000 SkyPesos
- Just forget about it, you don't have enough SkyPesos to fly anywhere.
SkyPesos by 404_name_not_found December 6, 2018
Word of the Day on August 14, 2026

Quiche Peanemis

Quirky niche peak cinema analysis
It describes the analysis of a media piece which is quirky and niche, yet peak.
Give me the quiche peanemis on the movie I missed.
Quiche Peanemis by Mushroom2241 June 17, 2026
Word of the Day on August 13, 2026

Hate Draft

1. Select a player (real or fantasy) during a sports draft to spite or anger one or more of your opponents because they had intended to select him/her.

2. Select a player (real or fantasy) during a sport draft to put one or more of your opponents at a strategic disadvantage.
1. Billy hate drafted Chad OchoCinco because he knew Sam had wanted him since he is from Cincinnati. Billy already had plenty of players to fill that position but wanted to make sure Sam didn't get him.

2. Billy hate drafted Peyton Manning because he was the only good quarterback left and he knew Sam had been planning on drafting him.
Hate Draft by pffler September 1, 2009
Word of the Day on August 12, 2026
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