13th step
Any person in a 12 step whom sexually prays on people in the program who have under 1 year of clean time.
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13th Step
For people who've really gone to 12 step meetings it's commonly known that the Thirteenth Step (really 13th step) is getting laid.
13th Steppin' is looking to get laid.
It can also inply that a 12-stepper is a Ho.
13th Steppin' is looking to get laid.
It can also inply that a 12-stepper is a Ho.
13th step
A metaphor used to describe someone who is close to suicide, fallin off the wagon, or about to relapse
At a gallow there are aproximately 12 stair steps to the hangmans noose, the 13th step is the hanging.
Also known as the stairway to heaven
At a gallow there are aproximately 12 stair steps to the hangmans noose, the 13th step is the hanging.
Also known as the stairway to heaven
Example1
Person#1 John's not here today, guess he finally took the 13th step.
Person#2 When's the funeral?
Example 2
Person#1
This class makes me wanna take the 13th step
Person#2
Oh are you in AA?
Person#1
I hate you
Person#1 John's not here today, guess he finally took the 13th step.
Person#2 When's the funeral?
Example 2
Person#1
This class makes me wanna take the 13th step
Person#2
Oh are you in AA?
Person#1
I hate you
13th step by InvitroCannibal February 20, 2015
13th stepper
13th stepper by Starchylde June 8, 2016
13th stepping
This is a term used for recovering addicts and alcoholics in the rooms of AAand NA. It is when a person with more than one year of sobriety becomes sexual with a newcomer in recovery. This method is successful because people with less than one year clean have extremely low self-esteem and are in a vulnerable state where they need to be comforted. Typically a man 13th steps a woman, but the reverse is equally as possible.
"You guys want to go to a meeting tonight and start 13th stepping some girls who only have one week clean? Its gonna be easy because they're all slutswith daddy issues!"
13th stepping by Broseph2891 May 8, 2014
13th Stepper
Someone who goes to ANY 12 step meeting for the purpose of looking for a one night stand. They see people in recovery as "low hanging fruit" and tend to prey on them for their own sexual gratification whether it be a one night stand or a friends with benefits type situation or even a relationship.
I warned her that he might try to pick her up at the recovery meeting, he was so obviously a 13th stepper. He had always been a predator to ladies in recovery.
13th Stepper by Marla_Singer June 21, 2019
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