The instigator was a bully, a little girl with a warm liquid hate, and not the warm heart she pretended to have in front of others that didn't know much about her darker side.
by The Original Agahnim January 21, 2022

When someone or something instigates foul nonsense bullshit to the point of receiving backlash and payback but nobody really wins.
Jeff stop fucking with Tara, Tara stop engaging with Jeff or he’ll never stop.
Jason “I’ve had it with this instigating fuckery.”
Jason “I’ve had it with this instigating fuckery.”
by TaraRae82 January 2, 2023

by hcacptruthsxx January 12, 2024

The instigator couldn't let the elementary school kids laugh at him/her, so he/she posed as a something they would respect, someone who broke rules, while posing as someone who loved rules to play the adults while trying to get a few of them to respect him/her.
by Solid Mantis November 30, 2019

The instigator was playing all sides, from anti-abortion to abortion supporters (to turn them against one another), from people that lived in mansions to people with no home (people of all walks of life), the instigator was always trying to rally people (into a mob) to fight for her because then she wouldn't have to fight alone (since she hated being alone), she could always outnumber an opponent, she could always roll people deep to walk/trample over an opponent if it wasn't just her by herself, a bully, a little girl, a mouse always looking to pick a fight with people she thought were weaker or less feisty than her.
by The Original Agahnim January 21, 2022

by jbrooke1017 December 2, 2020

Someone who thinks of himself/herself as David, and the other guy as Goliath in any argument or incident, thinks the other guy is always the argumentative one. Someone who will create drama out of what doesn't matter in life, and where there was no drama.
The instigator carried a couple stones for her slingshot at the beach in case the seagulls thought she was bluffing.
by Solid Mantis November 30, 2019
