by Mans like MJY March 24, 2021

A position on a sports team, in which a player rarely, if ever, gets any playing time, and spends all or most of the season on the sidelines.
Taj: Bro, you know that he went D1.
Luhtwan: Yeah, what position?
Taj: He’s playing BS.
Luhtwan: What’s that?
Taj: Bench Specialist
Luhtwan: Bahahahaaaa Bench Specialist (BS) 🤣🤣🤣
Luhtwan: Yeah, what position?
Taj: He’s playing BS.
Luhtwan: What’s that?
Taj: Bench Specialist
Luhtwan: Bahahahaaaa Bench Specialist (BS) 🤣🤣🤣
by BadAtty January 14, 2025

A man who deliberately disrespects or degrades someone for the validation or approval of other men. This is common amongst men who are in gangs or about the street life and lack father figures.
1. This bench fassy yute only tried to come for me because his boys were around. SMH
2. Bench fassy men have low esteem and always seek validation from other men. It’s weird and creepy
2. Bench fassy men have low esteem and always seek validation from other men. It’s weird and creepy
by Arron j smith September 8, 2021

When a girl gets her period she is not allowed to go into the swimming pool. She still has to suit up but has to sit on the bench. Everyone knows she has her period.
by quartermoa August 18, 2016

by Porkbench July 6, 2024

That friend that isn't quite good enough to be the first call when you have something cool happen. They only get the call when the First string friend isn't answering.
I just banged Tanya and her sister at the same time... I gotta call my boy and tell him.
Dam he didn't answer..... who is my bench friend. I'll call him.
Dam he didn't answer..... who is my bench friend. I'll call him.
by Bobba43074 July 26, 2021

A term used in baseball and softball usually targeted towards a person who sits on the dugout bench for most of the game, for any reason, aka "warming up" the bench.
by EvanOmNomz April 15, 2023
