A romantic notion that somehow "making love" is something more idealistic than just
sex.
In long term (closed) relationships
A For a man, making love is a technique to obtain
sex.
B For a woman
1.
sex-out-of-duty is called “love making”.
2. sex that is offered after a fight, kiss-and-make-up sex
3. occasional sex used to prop up the relationship
For a
man
he tries really hard to give his partner some pleasure as a result of intercourse, which he desperately wants so he gives a lot of foreplay cuddles and teasing, first. Lots of outer-course. Sometimes it involves flowers and gifts or dinner as well. This is called making love.
For a woman
1. she may not want
sex at all but allows her partner to
masturbate himself in her
vagina till he cums. She may even fake an
orgasm out of fome notion that some love is created.
2. she may hen peck, rant and rage at her partner then use
sex to make up - making love. Some cunning women use this technique to generate some, greater, passion from the male during sexual intercourse. Let’s kiss and make up, let’s make love!
It seems to work on some men who see vigorous
sex as some sort of punishment for the previous aggravation.
3. for some women, who have denied conjugal relations for months or even years, they wake up at
one or
two in the morning and say, “Want jiggy jiggy?”
The
man has all but forgotten how this works, and certainly doesn’t find this surprise either romantic or sexy and is not aroused by this bolt out of the blue.
“I dunn know. Not yet anyway – we’ll see” he gets undressed and un-dresses her then rolls over and goes back to sleep and waits for his morning erection.
Any
sex that ensues is what is called making love.