Emotional Selfishness

the erroneous placement of oneself at the egocentric epicenter of a relationship regardless of depth or titles with an extreme emphasis placed upon third party perceptions, which dictates emotional treatment of others.

A woman or man whom has been so traumatized by pass experiences that they exhibit an almost innate ability to push away the concern and love of other individuals out of fear of experiencing a residual let down.

The woman's "emotional selfishness" would not allow her to have a romantic relationship with the man of her dreams, because the scars from past relationship crippled her romantic courage.

by *18* Jean-Philippe *18* March 18, 2011

Self-Sabotaging

One who keeps screwing things up for themselves. Usually not on purpose.

God why did I blurt that out to him? I need to stop self-sabotaging my life.

by YES123456789 April 20, 2011

Self-partnered

Word coined by Emma Watson. Used as a version of single that refers to when you’re empowered and in a good place on your own.

“I am 30, I live alone, I have a great job, and unmarried: I am SELF-PARTNERED”

by buzzyfish November 5, 2019

mindless self indulgence

the greatest band in the world, that is all you need to know.

"Mindless Self Indulgence rocks my socks off"

"If it were not for MSI, i wouldnt know how to spell indulgence"

"Let me burn your mindless self indulgence cd"

"Jimmy cought my lighter"

by Bill+Pot=High March 8, 2004

Selfish Lover

Someone who accepts and is pleasured by "Oral Sex" but does not reciprocate.

No example necessary....Seriously.....ya' know what I'm talkin' about.

OK, a mini-example for those of you who aren't with it.

I did the muff dive on her and made her moan but she was a selfish lover and refused to bob my knob.

ENJOY!

by Mimi who is emancipated. July 23, 2008

self-hating White

Political slang for a Caucasian/ Euro-American person who prefers other cultures/ethnicities to his/ her own. Multiculturalists, those who do not accept that Euro-American culture is exceptional due to its promotion of individual liberty and responsibility, those who praise Islamic, Eastern, or other cultures as equal to or better than Euro-American: all such people are self-hating Whites.

Since he agreed that all legal systems including Islamic sharia were based on justice and tolerance, and at the same time questioned the superiority of the US Constitution, he was nothing more than a self-hating White.

by John Freethinker December 28, 2011

check yo self

To reevaluate your actions after realizing that your current course of action is likely to lead you into a troublesome situation. From Ice Cube's song "Check Yo Self."
See also: check yo self before you wreck yo self

Phineas: "The derivative of the hyperbolic arctangent of x is one over the quantity one minus x squared. Booyah, who's the man!"
Isaac: "Whatever. Your math skills are mediocre at best. I bet you couldn't even prove the Pythagorean theorem with a compass and a straightedge."
Phineas: "I believe those are fighting words. Let's take this outside. I'm going to slap you silly with my pocket protector!"
Isaac: "I suggest you check yo self before you wreck yo self. I've got three of my chess club buddies backing me up and one of them takes taekwondo!"

by Nicholas D February 18, 2009