Adj. A pejorative term for an effeminate heterosexual male. Lavender does NOT describe homosexual men; it is purely used to describe straight men who exhibit female qualities.
"Dude, is Craig watching Grey's Anatomy?" "Yeah, he's a little lavender."
Lavender; Lavendula angustifolia. A smallshrub whose flowers signify unconditional, unchanging love. An emblem of enduring faithfulness, lavender means “I’ll love you forever.”