When people continue to one-up one another in a social setting situation involving a competitive power dynamic when it comes to who has really struggled and who has not, with everyone one-upping then dismissively lording their experience over other people’s heads . Often observed in mommy groups.
"Hun, if you think that's bad, I had to deal with..."
"Oh, yeah? Ha ha ha, that's nothing, just wait until I tell you what I went through..."
(Becky and Brittnee are both known champions in the struggle olympics, who will win?)
"Oh, yeah? Ha ha ha, that's nothing, just wait until I tell you what I went through..."
(Becky and Brittnee are both known champions in the struggle olympics, who will win?)
by SusieCatWoman13 January 7, 2020
Get the struggle olympicsmug. When a man receives head from a person, male or female, and shoves his dick down their throat, locking his legs behind the recipient's head to keep it in that condition, and subsequently cuts off the airflow. The gag reflex activates, and the recipient of the Harlem Struggle chokes on it.
The Harlem Struggle makes it more pleasurable to the man as this choking can induce sensations and make the throat tighter.
by WhoDatFreshBoi February 25, 2019
Get the Harlem Strugglemug. A hamburger where the meat has been replaced with cheap noodles. This is only something you would make if you're broke as shit. Usually popular among college students, hobos, and people who invested in Bitcoin.
I'm always making struggle burgers. But one day, I scoured all of my jeans and my floor and sidewalks outside to collect enough change to buy a cheeseburger from McDonald's. That was seven months ago and I still have the wrapper as a keepsake.
by abisexualsockpuppet March 10, 2014
Get the struggle burgermug. an irresponsible baby momma to an even more irresponsible baby daddy who always puts the family in financial struggle and is always using people, especially for money. Also always talking big shit for attention and sympathy online but ain't shit irl.
Her: Men are trash. My bd just bought me McDonald's (with the money she gave him). Take note men. All the bills are in my name and I charge men to see my tiddies to pay for my pedicure. I run this shit. Men worship me. SEX SEX SEX. Here's my two cents, leave me alone, i don't want yours.
Also her: (with no job) Rent is due and I need books for college and my family needs food and I have (insert medical condition) and here's my $cashapp. Help me! I'm sad and I'm gonna take a nap. Love y'all!
Them: Damn, she always going through some shit. She a struggle mama.
Also her: (with no job) Rent is due and I need books for college and my family needs food and I have (insert medical condition) and here's my $cashapp. Help me! I'm sad and I'm gonna take a nap. Love y'all!
Them: Damn, she always going through some shit. She a struggle mama.
by tiedofdisbitch September 2, 2020
Get the struggle mamamug. by ZOLO82 November 19, 2021
Get the Struggle Glizzymug. A person or animal that either struggles to do something, fails epic-ally, is clumsy, or tries repeatedly to do something and hurts him/herself in the process.
by Struggle Bear lovr January 19, 2012
Get the Struggle Bearmug. This term mainly refers to white women that are tricked by black men with an inferiority complex into believing that they prefer white women to black women. They date these black men and are brainwashed into thinking they are better than black women. These women are usually obese and insecure and as a result of not meeting the weight standard of white men in their community go over to the black community to compete with black women for black men. This gives them a false sense of importance and relevance. They believe that because they possess white skin that black men will treat them better than they treat black women. But they are met with a rude awakening when they find out that they got the same black man that black women get. They support the black men financially, are left single moms to half black children then take to social media, i.e. TikTok, to complain about their their deadbeat black baby daddies. This type of black man is typically described as a struggle dusty therefore the "preferred" white woman is a struggle preference.
Struggle preference: "Oh, my God, Becky. Tyrone is treating me the same way he treated his ex black girlfriends. He doesn't pay child support for our three daughters and he never visits them!"
Becky: "Wow. That is totally insane. I thought he said you were, like, more submissive and feminine than his black girlfriends..."
Struggle preference: "I know, right?! He made me think I was better. I'm starting to think it was all a lie. I feel used. I believed him so I supported him financially for two years while was unemployed!"
Becky: "So, okay, I didn't want to tell you this before you guys broke up but I totally saw him kissing a black girl at Six Flags while you were away visiting your parents in Vermont...while you were pregnant!
Struggle preference: Goes on TikTok to complain about the struggle dusty
Becky: "Wow. That is totally insane. I thought he said you were, like, more submissive and feminine than his black girlfriends..."
Struggle preference: "I know, right?! He made me think I was better. I'm starting to think it was all a lie. I feel used. I believed him so I supported him financially for two years while was unemployed!"
Becky: "So, okay, I didn't want to tell you this before you guys broke up but I totally saw him kissing a black girl at Six Flags while you were away visiting your parents in Vermont...while you were pregnant!
Struggle preference: Goes on TikTok to complain about the struggle dusty
by Jaja Dannevik October 21, 2021
Get the struggle preferencemug.