Abuse

a phrase for hurting someone physically or mentally like punching, hitting, running over by a train on purpouse, and setting on fire

Guy 1: yo have you heard about devins moms ex boyfriend?
Girl 1: i bet hes hot
Guy 1: he is such a abuser. you do not wanna date him lol plus hes like in his 30's, your 19.
Girl 1: hush.

Abuse by toelickerwhaahahha March 12, 2023

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Abuse

A "person" who beats, hits, punches, slaps etc.

An abuser is also known for mentally draining other people for no reason.

An abuser is a "person" who does not know how to act like a normal human being to others.

"My father hates me, he abuses me for no reason"

"She is an abuser, she beats her boyfriend."

Abuse by Szaristic March 14, 2023

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Abuse

"People are conflating simple disagreement with gaslighting but when I talk about Palestine I receive a steady stream of abuse!" Seerut Chawla

Hym "They're weaponizing this language and you're receiving a steady stream of abuse? I don't see how that's it any different than MY THING! That sounds like MY THING! Really!? Well, I can relate Seerut Chawla. I'm usually hesitant to say people's names but... you asked for it, I guess. Hopefully you don't get nailed with some for of sexual impropriety scandal like the last 4 out of 8 people I've named... I don't know how any of that works but, yeah... ME TOO! I can totally relate to that! I hate comparative suffering rhetoric though. I'm not entirely unsympathetic to their claims of trauma. It isn't as bad (comparatively) as violence but I'm not going to presuppose (entirely) that their grievances are illegitimate. Life is pretty reality-monstery and it can be difficult to cope. People are largely uncooperative solipsists and once they've 'activated a mode' in your direction, it can be difficult to get them to treat you the way you want to be treated. But that's only because they're bad and dumb. And that's all it is, by the way. Them activating a certain mode of operation at you. Not that I don't do it.

I mean, yeah, if you're going to go into comparative suffering rhetoric it's going to activate my 'antagonism toward THAT' mode and then I'm going to be antagonistic towards you... For a minute. And then I'll revert to default settings and probably feel guilty about it and then I'm going to be like 'Oh no am I disparaging a fan or something or maybe I'm misinterpreting what's going on here' and then I'll feel bad for a bit... But that's the situation I'm in. I've activated people's 'antagonism towards ME' mode (which is what you did with the Palestine thing). I've been trying to figure out how to turn that off but their mechanisms of thought are a fucking hatchet job and their minds are INFERIOR TO MINE IN EVERY WAY! THE GREATEST MIND WHO HAS EVER LIVED! BETTER THAN EVERYONE!!! 😮 💨😮 💨😮 💨 But to no avail... So, if you're a fan, that'd cool. I love my fans but I hate having fans damn you all for making me be a celebrity I hate those and being one and knowing people and being known. And if you hate my guts then, you know, fuck you. You suck and I'm better than you in every way. I hate the weird gross hivemind you essentially are and you're something with would be killed with fire in a horror movie and abuse is only good when it happens to you specifically."

Abuse by Hym Iam December 31, 2023

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abuse by proxy

If all else fails, the abuser recruits friends, colleagues, mates, family members, the authorities, institutions, neighbours, the media, teachers – in short, third parties – to do his bidding. He uses them to cajole, coerce, threaten, stalk, offer, retreat, tempt, convince, harass, communicate and otherwise manipulate his target. He controls these unaware instruments exactly as he plans to control his ultimate prey. He employs the same mechanisms and devices. And he dumps his props unceremoniously when the job is done.

One form of control by proxy is to engineer situations in which abuse is inflicted upon another person. Such carefully crafted scenarios of embarrassment and humiliation provoke social sanctions (condemnation, opprobrium, or even physical punishment) against the victim. Society, or a social group become the instruments of the abuser.

- He keeps sending his friends over to ask for stuff he left behind after he had moved out!

- Abuse by proxy, if you ask me!

abuse by proxy by zadanliran October 25, 2011