People who are punching above their weight are generally going out with women of far superior quality in either the face/body department. Most famous example would be kathrine zeta jones and michael Douglas

To insert a clenched fist into a sexual orifice for the purpose of gratification for the receiving party. A variation on fisting and not to be confused for synonymous with that act. There is tenuous precautions deliberately taken to prevent injury or pain. The possibility of pain and the borderline thereof typically aids in the gratification of participating parties.