Windgender is a xenogender, uses by people who feel a strong connection to the wind or just want their gender to be associated with the wind. The wind can be a gentle breeze or a strong storm, it's up to you.
"I think I might identify with the xenogender windgender! It seems very fitting to me!"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.