A group of 4 people who's names start with the four letters of the word. They may not be very popular but they are friends who love each other as friends. I am one of these people, I am from VHMS.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.