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Tokenism 

Parading around your best example of a marginalized group (that one woman CEO or that one amazing black teacher) to prove you aren’t sexist or racist.
white People: look at this article about a black man who spends extra time with kids with no dads... why isn’t THIS viral?
Answer: because it’s Tokenism and black people doing something great isn’t as rare as YOU think.
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tokenism 

The liberal act of labeling any black people that work for their political adversaries as tokens to shame, harass, and humiliate them for working with their political adversaries that the liberals project their racism onto.
Our best strategy to trick people into believing conservatives are all racists is by using tokenism to run as many people of color away from our competition.
tokenism by Jsjusjdjskksj March 2, 2019

retro-tokenism 

Going back to a photograph and photoshopping in a token minority.
This corporate report is a blatant example of retro-tokenism. See that black man there, clearly he was inserted into the picture after the fact for political correctness.

Inverted Tokenism

A rhetorical strategy where someone cites the existence of marginalized individuals who agree with dominant views as proof that oppression doesn't exist or that dissent is invalid. "I have a Black friend who agrees with me" is the classic form. It's tokenism inverted because instead of using marginalized people as decorative diversity, it uses them as rhetorical weapons against movements for justice. The existence of exceptions doesn't disprove patterns; individuals can internalize oppression or hold complex views. Inverted Tokenism weaponizes authenticity against liberation.
"You say the system is racist, but I know a Black conservative who says it's not." That's Inverted Tokenism—using one person's view to dismiss structural analysis. One individual doesn't negate patterns; their existence doesn't make the problem disappear. Tokenism as a weapon, not a bridge."
Inverted Tokenism by Dumu The Void February 28, 2026

Twokenism 

The act, especially by politicians, of jumping on the latest 'Woke' bandwagon to garner media attention, popularity, and, whisper it ever so softly, votes....
He'd no idea what BLM was about but as soon as he saw the attention it was getting in the press the leader of the opposition simply had to ensure the press had a photo of him taking the knee (whatever that meant) a clear indication that his actions were mere twokenism.
Twokenism by stephenroi December 11, 2020
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A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
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No Surprises Wedding

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This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
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Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
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"Hey, see that chick over there? She's pretty enough to be an ulzzang. :D"
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