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The Ashtray 

A name commonly used for the neighborhood Princeton West, located just outside of Walton High School. It is called the Ashtray because of the large number of scene, skater, and stoner kids who smoke cigarettes and various other things at the front of the neighborhood.
Stoner Kid #1: "Hey bro, wanna meet me at The Ashtray after school Friday? I'll smoke you up."
Stoner Kid #2: "Yeah dude, all my skater and scene friends will be there, too!"
The Ashtray by EastCobbSnob May 29, 2009

The Ashtray 

A "finishing" move performed after intercourse in which one puts their cigarette out in the groin area of the other person, usually performed on a woman, hence the name "Ashtray."
So get this, after the whore and I were done, we were laying there and smoking when I reached down and put my cig out on her coot! The Ashtray!
The Ashtray by A rash August 20, 2006

The Ashtray 

When you put the ash of a cigarette inside a man's foreskin and someone gives you a blowjob afterwards.
The taste of that Kent after giving Kevin The Ashtray was very ashy.
The Ashtray by HissBooom July 8, 2021

The Ashtray Rules 

1. Don't cough in the ashtray
2. Don't sneeze in the ashtray
3. Don't laugh in the ashtray
4. Don't blow on the ashtray
5. OR YOU HAVE TO VACCUM

These rules can be repeated for joint-rolling. No-one wants all their weed on the floor.
Person1: *cough cough* oh shit i spilled the ashtray everywhere with my misaimed cough.
Person2: Get out the vaccum then, you know The Ashtray Rules!
The Ashtray Rules by MMMerangue April 17, 2008

kissing the ashtray 

When you kiss a guy or girl who smokes and it tastes of cigarette ash. Not pleasent.
Yo I thought she was buff until I was kissing the ashtray. Now I have barfed 4 times!
kissing the ashtray by Hawke February 19, 2006

both sides of the ashtray 

A phrase coined by Mr. Blues to describe both sides in the conflict over smoking in bars and other public places.
Despite the rancor there is one thing about the smoking situation that we should all be able to agree on: There are fanatical zealots on "both sides of the ashtray"®.
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
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