It means something similar to the traditional term saddened, but the cause of the state is specifically due to a miserable sod passing their misery to the soddened
individual by some various means. Most often soddening occurs to those who
love the sod or need something from the sod, to those who
don't expect their beloved sod would choose to hurt them, and are made sick with the sodness of betrayal and abandonment by the unhappy sod.
The condition
may be temporary. Sometimes those who experience it wise up. Other times healing takes place between sod and saddened. Unfortunately, often the soddened
make a habit of falling prey to this condition.
This can happen to anybody, lovers, friends, or kids of miserable sods.
Her: What happened to Joelle? She is not herself these days.
Gossip monger: haven't you heard? Bruce just was being Bruce, and he's an unhappy ol sod, but she
took it personally, and now she's totally soddened.
Her: Sucks to be her...
Bruce: (who happens to be walking by) Sucks to be me! Nobody cares how I was soddened!
Her: I thought Joelle cared...