This is a filler word that is used in place of the actual verb when in the presence of the ill informed party.
Say you are in a group of people and you had sex with two of them. And you want to communicate with you friend that is also in the group that you had sex with one or both you would say
I shatocked her last week then last night I shatocked her friend
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.