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A sadboy or a sodftboi (softboy) is a person (usually in their teens 13-19) who cries about their problems instead of fixing them.
You rarely see one, because they lack social interaction and rarely go outside their own homes.

In case you haven't, here's what they look like: They will usually wear informal clothing, like an oversized hoodie, hoodie without hood, hoodie without zipper... Etc. The type of music they listen to is a form of music that is catchy to listen to, but you wouldn't be caught dead doing so; a mix of ukulele and sad singing and more recently, sad rap.
They often times spend their time on the popular messaging app discord, mostly going on socialization and dating servers. They spend their time in the voice rooms the server provides, often times faking panic attacks and speaking with a tired monotone. Strangely enough, they will be in a relationship with somebody, but since they don't socialize very often, 9 times out of 10, it's online (On the aforementioned app Discord).
A more ancient equivalent to the "sadboy" is the emo, and in many ways they're similar, but the "sadboy" is a more modern take.
"Hey call Jacob, he might hang out with us!"
"He says he can't, he is something called a "sadboy" "
Sadboy by Fuckshitassdick February 21, 2021
A young teen that is very depressed. But also listen to firme oldies. Get very angry for stupid reasons. Also a gangster name. “SadBoy” is a male that can fight. Tried his best to keep a relationship if it doesn’t work the male would do anything to get that young lady back. Smokes a lot of wax,weed, and crack. Can never take a joke.
ese1. Aye ese look at that foo across the shit.

ese2. Aye that the home SadBoy. He’s always depressed but listen to some firme oldies.
sadboy by Adrian.p May 19, 2018
The boy who never wil pen. a girl, he wear a shit retreck Polish hats that was populair in years 80s.
Sadboy is a horsepower to an unit.
Sadboy by KAPLO April 2, 2017
A very large white cat owned by poetssquarecats on tiktok. He is often seen with his girlfriend Lola ( a very small brown tabby). Most women consider sadboy the perfect man , and also the most loyal man.
oh look there goes Sadboy looking for his Lola
Sadboy by RoseChan01 July 3, 2022
Someone who makes their entire identity about being "sad", while doing nothing but perpetuating their own sadness. Known for self-sabotage, dependence on alcohol and drugs, self-medicating, disappointing people, blowing off responsibilities, claiming to be "doing better", not actually "doing better", hurting decent folks and attracting indecent nouns (people, places and things).

May also be sort of gay.
That Mack fellar is a real Sadboy, I heard he even got it as a vanity plate on his car! Decent music though.

sadboy season 

Lengthy periods of sadness and loneliness for sad boys
You good bruh?
Yeah, it's just sadboy season
sadboy season by Tokyo tommy March 19, 2018