Def. 1: An advanced sexual maneuver where while mid coitus the man, or other penetrating member, fully extracts his phallus from the vaginal cavity and then proceeds, gathering all of his weight and with maximum velocity, to thrust said phallus into the unsuspecting anal cavity of his sexual partner without breaking rhythm and, ideally, achieving full penetration. The act is then consummated with shower tears and a feeble apology.
Def. 2: Used to describe overcoming a difficult situation (or 'Sam Jam') with confidence and mental fortitude.
'Tired of his vanilla sex life Matthew thought it wise to surprise his girlfriend with a well timed Sam Ram. Unfortunately his aim was not true and ended up in a painful Sam Jam.'
'Worried they would get fired from work for incompetence James and Michael decided to pin all of their work on their hardworking co-worker Chris, under threat of a Tag-Team Sam Ram. Chris, terrified, quietly agreed. James and Michael proceeded to celebrate the fact that they had successfully Sam Rammed that situation.'
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”