Don't hate the playerhate the game ... Or society made me do it, or the system is flawed and I've figured out how to work it, or everyone else is cheating too, or I hope I don't go to prison.
Tasha: " What you doin' this weekend, girl??"
Leia: "My boyfriend Adam is out of town for a few days and I don't want to feel lonely for a minute. I've had Jim on a string on the side for awhile - I'll meet him with a bunch of my friends for a free bottle of wine and dinner".
Tasha: You a playerette, girl!!
An all-encompassing affront on the lifestyle of the person to whom the hate is directed. Broader in scope, yet more specific than simply the term "hate". Most often used as a verb.