One Mode means having only the singular mode of fighting for the team and attacking when in doubt, or attacking the problem first then trying other means.
To be "Mode One" with someone means to be extremely candid and provocatively honest, particularly as it relates to someone expressing desires, interests, or intentions related to sex.
"Girl ... that man approached me, and he was very Mode One with me. I was shocked at some of the things that came out of his mouth!!"
"I met this woman last night, and she was totally Mode One with me. I wasn't talking to her for more than two or three minutes before she asked me could she give me a blowjob..."
"I was at this house party the other day, and this guy was being totally Mode One with these women. As soon as he approached them, he just started asking them about their sexual fantasies, and sexual preferences. I couldn't believe how bold and sexually straightforward he was with his language..."
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.