When laying with a significant other or a person of interest, you begin spellingwords and letters on their skin with your fingertips, often followed by the individual trying to guess what you are spelling.
Boyfriend: *Using fingertips on her back to spell* "I L O V E Y O U."
Girlfriend: "I love you, too. I love when you write me Fingertip Love Notes."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.