A phrase often used by an angry spouse when their partner has described an inappropriatesituation that they have been thinking about and the spouse would rather they didn't.
Peter: I'm just thinking about dem chicks! Dey were well fit! Banging!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.