The interactions you have with an ex-girlfrend of ex-boyfriend after you have broken up with them. If amidst these interactions it looks like you are doing better than your ex after the break up then it can be said that you won the ex-games or a certain ex-games event.
Rob: Hey Dave, isnt that your ex, Katie eating alone over there?
Dave: Yeah, that's her. I walked by and talked to her a few minutes ago. She sounds miserable. I'm totally winning the ex-games.
Continually bashing your ex to others, even though it's only a matter of time before you take them back no matter how badly they treated you, i.e. cheating multiple times, abuse, immature behavior.
Even though she had just finalized her divorce after being cheated on multiple times, it was all just exgames as they recently got back together.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. PenguinBooks,1992. p. 38)