a woman (or man, i guess) who is a dicktease. could be a prude or even a stripper. basically anyone who makes your dick hard, usually without intention of actually doing anything with it.
i was with my friends and this chick and i had a disagreement. she called me an instigator; meanwhile, she's dancing and grinding her ass all over my friend's crotch. so i called her a dickstigator.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.