The act of striping a nerd (social or otherwise) of their status as a nerd, in respects such as appearance, behavior, and in really successful cases, of their nerdish beliefs.
Ger.:denerdification
Ex: "Yeah, we're taking Susie to the market to get some normal clothes. We're attempting to denerdify her."
Ex: "Albert's denerdification process is failing miserably."
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.