a combination of the words "deadass" and "legitimately" used to show seriousness of an idea or situation. similar to and made funnier by the skater kid saying "that was legitneth" through hith theeth(?).
Needing confirmation on news of her brother shagging the mailman, who was also his cousin, Gertrude asks "You for real?" To which Mildred replies "Yeah, deadassimately. Alabama tingz."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.