Making an intentional effort to steer clear of going out with or developing feelings for any boy.
Some women, usually women who have been boysober for long enough (if this is possible) transition into a less rigid more radical form of boysobriety in which they allow themselves to see MEN not boys.
“You and Jacks friend would like eachother do you want to go on a double date?”
“Oh no thanks I’m Boysober currently. Charlie put my heart in a hydraulic press”
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.