The act of talking to a girl/boy before an almost definite sexual encounter, but for some unknown reason, the talk is the last thing you end up doing that night.
A: HeyPaddy, How'd you go with that Italian Backpacker?
B: Oh man, Got to her house and butched it out for 2 hours. I thought I was in!
A: Access Denied!!!
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)