A baby momma that possesses narcissistic traits to destroy the character of their baby daddy due to a power trip. The BM will exaggerate stories and make up lies to claim as facts even with no examples or concrete evidence. The BM will go extra lengths to play the victim role and will use the child or children as a pawn to coerce the BD to doing what she wants. She will withhold visitations and extort money from the BD. The BM will be blind to the fact that she is traumatizing her own child due to being selfish on a mission for revenge to make the BD's life hell because she can no longer control him. The BM will even go through the extra effort to sabotage the BD's career that provides for her and the child/children.
"My ex is such a BitterBM that she won't let me see my child at least once a month even though I pay her money and take care of my child."
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”