When a seemingly rhetorical question is answered by logic and reason. Named after electrical engineerBen Brand.
Steve: Why does fire pop? It's really sick when that happens.
Ben: It's because water in the wood boils into steam; pressure builds until a gap large enough for the steam to escape is formed in the wood. This is the so called "popping sound".
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.