A portmanteau of Bum Mentality, Bumentality (pronounced buh-mentality) refers to the thinking of someone unwilling to act or impose their will if it comes with the risks of failure or embarrassment. It is not designed as a permanent description, you can have strong people be troubled with temporary Bumentality.
LA : Damn, I was hooping with Rio and he got himself an open shot, but then just chose to drive into the other team.
BR : Yeah, that bitch has bumentality
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.