A term used to describe someone, male or female (mostly male), who is annoyingly and ridiculously "googly oogly" or "whipped" over a person of the opposite sex. This person whines about everything when communicating to or about their partner; does not stand up for him or herself; and complains about it, yet continues to endure the abuse, instead of removing oneself from the relationship.
"Damn! Quit being weenified!"
"Damn! Don't be so weenified!"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.