was originally used in a 1950's song.
It is an act where, once sex has become boring with you sexual partner,
as intercourse is taking place, without your partner knowing, you make a funny face, cross your eyes or stick your tongue out, making comedy with yourself. You have a feeling of monotony,boredom.
I was really bored with yolanda last night, seems like the same meat and bland potatoes... I laughed to myself as I did the watootsie...
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”