Mens hairstyle in witch the person with medium length puts hair into a pony tail because there hair is not long enough to put it into a man bun and the pony tail sits of the top of the head; top of head pony tail
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.