Sonder is the realization that everybody around you, even strangers, are living a life just as complex as yours. Sometimes your hurting so bad and you feel your the only one. But after all your hardships you start to realize that everybody is so
unique and you
aren't the only one. Everybody lives are so indescribably different and there is no way you
will ever understand their lives. To sum it up you are realizing that your not the only one living with such chaos and complexity. All people lives are
unique, strange, chaotic, and complex, just like yours. Your not alone.
I lay in bed so deep in my thoughts, the
darkness was all around me while, slowly, the sonder started to kick in. I then realized that not only me, but all seven point
fifty three billion people in this
world which they are constantly living despite my personal lack of awareness of it.