Skip to main content

Soft Reference

The act of making an indirect reference to a person, piece of media, or place.

Instead of directly quoting or mentioning the reference, it is hinted at or alluded to.
Sometimes may require more context from the speaker since soft referencing can be vague or the listener may not understand the phrase/connection.
Soft referencing: "He said he didn't want the promotion anyway, but it’s just sour grapes."
Direct referencing: "He is pretending to dislike the job because he can't have it, which is the plot of Aesop's fable The Fox and the Grapes."

Soft reference: "Nature feels a bit too mechanical today."
Direct reference: "These insects remind me of that one Black Mirror episode, the one about the robot bees"
Soft Reference by JaqJaquzzi July 6, 2026
Urban Dictionary Merch
Your favorite words on things you can wear, drink from, read, or give to a friend.
The Urban Dictionary Store sells gifts you’ll have to explain.

Soft Reference

The act of making an indirect reference to a person, piece of media, or place.

Instead of directly quoting or mentioning the reference, it is hinted at or alluded to.
Sometimes may require more context from the speaker since soft referencing can be vague or the listener may not understand the phrase/connection.
Soft referencing: "He said he didn't want the promotion anyway, but it’s just sour grapes."
Direct referencing: "He is pretending to dislike the job because he can't have it, which is the plot of Aesop's fable The Fox and the Grapes."

Soft reference: "Nature feels a bit too mechanical today."
Direct reference: "These insects remind me of that one Black Mirror episode, the one about the robot bees"
Soft Reference by JaqJaquzzi July 6, 2026
Related Words
More from Urban Dictionary
NYC people who migrate north to Quahog, RI to see the leaves in the fall.
New York and everyone from there can fornicate themselves with an iron stick.
leafers by ss++ February 8, 2005
Word of the Day on September 27, 2026

Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

After school, The Modells on Jamaica Ave was active. Respectfully.
Respectfully by john quan the first December 20, 2020
Word of the Day on September 26, 2026

You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
Word of the Day on September 25, 2026
Adjective. Used to describe persons who have adjusted or altered their lifestyle for environmental reasons. Crunchy persons tend to be politically strongly left-leaning and may be additionally but not exclusively categorized as vegetarians, vegans, eco-tarians, conservationists, environmentalists, neo-hippies, tree huggers, nature enthusiasts, etc.

Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

Modified derivative of granola.
"I need more crunchy guys in my life. I'm so tired of dating preppy metrosexual assholes."

"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"
crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007
Word of the Day on September 24, 2026
A group of people, typically women, searching through someone’s digital footprint in order to find more information about that person.
Susie wasn’t sure if her new Hinge match was a creep, so she assembled Galantir and they found out he used to post slurs on gaming forums.
Galantir by Ge-sus September 22, 2026
Word of the Day on September 23, 2026
Next