A safe word is used to interrupt a scene during sex, mostly in BDSM relationships. Usually words entirely unrelated to the situation, such as "red, banana, shelf, chair" etc, are used as safe words. A safe word is important for both submissive and dominant partners to create a safe and comfortable space for everyone involved.
Dom: *smacks partner*
Sub: "BANANA! (safeword) That's too hard."

Dom: *smacks partner*
Sub: *yelps*
Dom: "RED! (safeword) I feel bad/guilty for hitting you like that."
by sourceofeducation September 08, 2018
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A word which describes when the pleasure should stop during sex, before things get out of hand.

Usually something that wouldn't be said DURING intercourse.
Guy: What's tonight's safeword?
Girl: Door

P.S: Hi Shannen. LMAO.
by Jay-Moneyyyyy May 01, 2010
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Something your sexual partner screams out when about to orgasm an is overwhelming enough that you can start to reach your nut
Me and Maggie have a safeword, but I forget what we said.
by Titus dyfilid February 18, 2019
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A safeword conserns BDSM sexual acts. In BDSM, begging to stop increases pleasure and reality. A safeword is used to actually mean "stop", since screams for stop aren't sincere. The safeword is usually a normal word, like "pink", "banana", or "door" and is determined before starting play.
Jan: Tonight's safeword is "music".
Rob: Oh no! Stop it! Stop it! Stop it!
Jan: Ooh, you've been a naughty boy.
Rob: Please, I'm begging you!
Rob: Music.
Jan: Alright, enough for tonight you filthy boy.
by hyenaste September 14, 2005
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The cutesy word that triggers over-the-top couples to kiss each other or be affectionate.
Geof keeps saying "butter," so Heather has to anti-safeword kiss him. Tricky Geof. Lucky Geof.
by ShortSmartSassySweet April 11, 2021
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