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Contrary to the other definition, reserved is a characteristic of a person whom socializes sparingly.

It is shown not out of inability to converse or work with others, but instead permits them to be self-aware of whom, what, when, where, why and how they talk to people.

A reserved person may speak less in groups because they prefer to listen to what is being said, and who is saying it.

When they have formulated a contribution to a discussion, it's generally well thought out.

Reserved people garner the respect of their peers and do not seek to offend intentionally.

As opposed to an anti-social or asocial person, reserved people DO know how to talk to their peers and delight in interaction, although very brief.

This is not to be conflated with "socially awkward" or "socially retarded", or even "shy"; all of which stem from social anxiety, but hold some form of connection to being reserved.
A vice-chair or CEO of a Fortune 500 company may be reserved, especially when speaking to the media or to international clients.
reserved by bredsheeran81 December 11, 2017
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When two people are not dating but are going to date in the future. It's that middle stage between friends and boyfriend and girlfriend (or two same gender couples).
Rob: "Hey are you you and Jenna dating?"

Marcus: "No we're reserved, she'll be my girlfriend soon."

This term can be also related to being engaged to someone except rather it being between dating to marriage it's between friends and dating.
Reserved by Nicholas Bartholomew January 5, 2018
Someone who isn't very social and prefers not to be talked to.
That guy over there is so reserved
reserved by LoserHere July 7, 2011
a phrase to describe Robbie's. Anyone named Robbie is reserved and soft.
Robbie is reserved.
reserved by reservedrobbie69 April 21, 2020

Reserved Relationship 

When two people from two different couples reserve eachother and flirt with eachother in anticipation of their current relationships ending. When their relationships end, they will instantly date the person in the reserved relationship.
Ivy - I'm dating John, but i've totally reserved Peter.
Peter - Yeah we're in a reserved relationship
Reserved Relationship by y0br0 August 29, 2012

reserved input 

The act of knowingly denying knowledge about events in an attempt to extend a great conversation.
When having an enjoyable conversation Mason asked me, “do you know who the first person to walk on the moon was”? I reserved input knowing who it was because both he and I were so enjoying the telling of the story.
reserved input by intothefray April 24, 2022

Reserved Homosexual 

When a gay person or homosexual doesn't want to call those who are straight or heterosexual so, they use the word reversed homosexual for a singular person and reserved homosexuals for multiple persons.
If you don't read any Boy Love mangas then you must be a reserved homosexual.