Patholighting

A vicious form of gaslighting that involves pathologizing the other person—labeling their thoughts, feelings, or behaviors as symptoms of mental illness, thereby dismissing everything they say without engaging with its content. Patholighting happens when you express a legitimate concern and are told you're "being paranoid," when you disagree with someone and are told you're "delusional," or when you question authority and are told you're "schizophrenic." The goal is to make you doubt not just your perception of reality, but your own sanity. Once you've been pathologized, nothing you say matters—it's just the illness talking. Patholighting is especially common in online arguments, where "touch grass," "seek help," and "you're clearly mentally ill" serve as conversation-enders that require no engagement with the actual argument.

Example: "She pointed out logical flaws in his argument, and he patholighted her immediately. 'You're so obsessed with this,' he said. 'It's not normal. You might have some kind of disorder.' Her points remained unaddressed, her logic unanswered, but now she was also worried that maybe she was too invested. The patholighting had worked: she was defending her sanity instead of her argument."

Patholighting by Dumu The Void February 15, 2026

Patholighting

A vicious form of gaslighting that involves pathologizing the other person—labeling their thoughts, feelings, or behaviors as symptoms of mental illness, thereby dismissing everything they say without engaging with its content. Patholighting happens when you express a legitimate concern and are told you're "being paranoid," when you disagree with someone and are told you're "delusional," or when you question authority and are told you're "schizophrenic." The goal is to make you doubt not just your perception of reality, but your own sanity. Once you've been pathologized, nothing you say matters—it's just the illness talking. Patholighting is especially common in online arguments, where "touch grass," "seek help," and "you're clearly mentally ill" serve as conversation-enders that require no engagement with the actual argument.

Patholighting Example: "She pointed out logical flaws in his argument, and he patholighted her immediately. 'You're so obsessed with this,' he said. 'It's not normal. You might have some kind of disorder.' Her points remained unaddressed, her logic unanswered, but now she was also worried that maybe she was too invested. The patholighting had worked: she was defending her sanity instead of her argument."

Patholighting by Dumu The Void February 15, 2026

Cheeks 

An Irish phrase meaning shit, derived from ass
(Not to be confused with the literal description of one's buttocks)

"Did you hear the song Aylek$ dropped?"
"Hardly. Her music is absolute cheeks."

"My boyfriend say LaFlame is cheeks."
"Tell your boyfriend I said it's his mixtape that's cheeks."

Cheeks by thecartisan April 26, 2020

sans sheriff 

Lawless use of fonts or typography, with no regard to aesthetics or legibility

I'm putting this CV straight in the bin. Written totally sans sheriff.

sans sheriff by Jamarley July 3, 2019

Breadhead 

Someone who is addicted to obtaining money and building wealth. A money addict and fanatic. Breadheads often work more than one full-time job, and some even participate in illicit activities to "obtain the bread".

A breadhead is like a crackhead, but for money instead of crack.

Breadhead by 🅱️ U S 3 4 8 March 30, 2022

Stink lines

As seen in illustrations or cartoons: Wavy, vertical lines rising above a person, place or thing. Denotes a foul odor.

"You didn't put enough stink lines on your picture of the teacher."

Stink lines by Athene Airheart March 14, 2004

schmegegge 

Yiddish slang word meaning bullshit, baloney, hogwash, nonsense, crock of shit or hot air.

I don't buy the schmegegge about Morty sleeping with Moira.
His version of the story was pure schmegegge.
The whole schmegegge was made up to get Liz a little bit of attention.

schmegegge by budsbabe February 1, 2008