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Orgasm Control 

BDSM play

Submissive has to ask the Dominant for the permission to cum (to have orgasm)

Mainly it is about trusting eachother, so the Sub has to always inform the Dom about it. If he fails, he has to tell the Dom.

Dom can ban the Sub from orgasm for few days or weeks. If the Sub keeps failing, the Dom can give him the worst punishment: To stop punishing and controlling him. Sub wants to be controlled, so if Dom stops, he will be sad. There is a lot of punisments you can find on the internet too. Things like cum eating, piss play, anal play, spanking, ball busting, corner time and more.

Common responses, if the Sub wants to cum:
Yes, you can honey!
No, you have done that yesterday!
No, you have been a bad boy today!
No, but you can have few edges!
Stop asking me, or no cumming for the next three days!
Yes, but just once and you have to ruin it.
Yes, but eat the cum.
…

Dom is usually teasing the Sub.
“I just came, oh, i forgot, that you can not! Too bad”
“Are you horny? To bad, no cumming for you”

The point is in making the orgasm something as a reward for the Sub, so do not go easy on him! It is so fun to make him suffer. Sub will want the Dom even more and he will treat the Dom like a god.

It is good to make rules, before you start.
Can I cum today?
No, you can’t, you have done that two days ago.

I came, even when you told me not to…
Really?? That’s no cumming for the next week!

I came…
I said no cumming for the next week!!! So you will not cum for the TWO weeks, and if you will, I will not controll your orgasm anymore! But you want me to controll you, don’t you? I love orgasm controll.
Orgasm Control by Renedang February 26, 2023
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