To be consumed by obsessive thoughts or behaviours about a romantic partner after a separation, particularly when the breakup was caused by one partner's fear of emotional intimacy or commitment due to the relationship's inevitable end, often due to geographical distance. The individual experiencing this state is unable to achieve emotional closure, leading to a continual preoccupation with the past relationship.
"Ever since their breakup, Maya was obfasculated, unable to stop thinking about Ben, even though they both knew the distance would never allow them to be together."
by Donchev December 20, 2024