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Normativity Bias

The bias where only one's own views, behaviors, or ways of being are considered "normal"—everything else is deviant, strange, or wrong. Normativity Bias is the cognitive foundation of prejudice, of ethnocentrism, of every system that treats difference as deficit. It's the assumption that how I live is not just how I live but how people should live, and that those who live differently are not just different but wrong. Normativity Bias is invisible to those who hold it because their way of being feels not like a choice but like reality. They don't see their own culture; they see the world. Everyone else has a culture; they have normality.
Example: "He couldn't understand why other cultures did things differently. To him, his way wasn't a way; it was just 'normal.' Normativity Bias meant he never had to examine his own assumptions—they weren't assumptions, they were just reality. Other people were strange; he was just... normal. The bias was invisible to him, which is how it maintained its power."
Normativity Bias by Dumu The Void February 20, 2026
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Cognitive Normativity Bias

A bias where one's own cognitive processes—how one thinks, learns, reasons, remembers—are taken as the universal standard, and any deviation is seen as error or deficiency. Cognitive Normativity Bias is what makes linear thinkers assume that nonlinear thinkers are confused, what makes verbal thinkers assume that visual thinkers are disorganized, what makes fast processors assume that slow processors are stupid. It's the assumption that there is one right way to think, and that way is whatever way you think. This bias is especially common in educational settings, where one cognitive style is privileged and all others are accommodated (if they're lucky) or pathologized (if they're not). The cure is recognizing that cognition is diverse, that different minds work differently, and that difference is not deficit.
Example: "He thought in images, not words. His teacher thought in words, not images. Cognitive Normativity Bias meant the teacher saw his visual thinking as a problem to fix, not a different way of knowing. 'You need to learn to think clearly,' she said, meaning 'you need to think like me.' He never did, but he learned that his mind was 'wrong.' The bias had done its work: making difference feel like failure."
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
fogey by Petyush September 14, 2005
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Add a tablespoon of jarlic to two teaspoons of butter and spread it in bread to make garlic bread
Jarlic by YSAC fanboy June 6, 2020
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An armpit enthusiast — typically of the scent, appearance, and touch of hairy underarms.
That dude’s such a pitpig, I have to wear deodorant to keep him at bay.
Pitpig by wimbledon May 28, 2026
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You the birthday

You the birthday-you the point, you the topic, the reason we here, can be used as a compliment / u looking good or silly/trolling
Nah fr, you the birthday, you got all the attention.
You the birthday by Dev-in April 4, 2026
Word of the Day on May 28, 2026

church hurt 

church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
Word of the Day on May 27, 2026