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Normativity Bias

The bias where only one's own views, behaviors, or ways of being are considered "normal"—everything else is deviant, strange, or wrong. Normativity Bias is the cognitive foundation of prejudice, of ethnocentrism, of every system that treats difference as deficit. It's the assumption that how I live is not just how I live but how people should live, and that those who live differently are not just different but wrong. Normativity Bias is invisible to those who hold it because their way of being feels not like a choice but like reality. They don't see their own culture; they see the world. Everyone else has a culture; they have normality.
Example: "He couldn't understand why other cultures did things differently. To him, his way wasn't a way; it was just 'normal.' Normativity Bias meant he never had to examine his own assumptions—they weren't assumptions, they were just reality. Other people were strange; he was just... normal. The bias was invisible to him, which is how it maintained its power."
Normativity Bias by Dumu The Void February 20, 2026
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Cognitive Normativity Bias

A bias where one's own cognitive processes—how one thinks, learns, reasons, remembers—are taken as the universal standard, and any deviation is seen as error or deficiency. Cognitive Normativity Bias is what makes linear thinkers assume that nonlinear thinkers are confused, what makes verbal thinkers assume that visual thinkers are disorganized, what makes fast processors assume that slow processors are stupid. It's the assumption that there is one right way to think, and that way is whatever way you think. This bias is especially common in educational settings, where one cognitive style is privileged and all others are accommodated (if they're lucky) or pathologized (if they're not). The cure is recognizing that cognition is diverse, that different minds work differently, and that difference is not deficit.
Example: "He thought in images, not words. His teacher thought in words, not images. Cognitive Normativity Bias meant the teacher saw his visual thinking as a problem to fix, not a different way of knowing. 'You need to learn to think clearly,' she said, meaning 'you need to think like me.' He never did, but he learned that his mind was 'wrong.' The bias had done its work: making difference feel like failure."

bang a you-ee 

of Massachusetts orig. "to make a u-turn"
hey, we missed the bar, bang a you-ee
Word of the Day on July 19, 2026
The word 'flag' as pronounced by people with thick Belfast accents. The term is a perfect encapsulation of the disproportionate and overblown reaction to the removal of the Union Jack (as in 'de fleg') from above City Hall in Belfast. Where previously it had flown for 365 days per year, it is now flown on 17 designated days of the year - in line with many other British cities.

The event caused a portion of the Protestant community ('fleggers') to make international pricks of themselves as they proceeded to wreck the fucking place, claiming it was another erosion of a 'British' identity they perceive to have been under attack since the horrifying spectre of equality reared its head in Northern Ireland.

The word 'fleg' - and indeed 'fleggers' - fittingly describes a section of humanity unconcerned with knowledge, reality or the vagaries of the English language. Like America's tea-baggers they are ruled by instinct, fear and paranoia with a side dish of rampant bigotry and startling ignorance of the world around them.
"Wat de fuck like! The taigs got de fleg took down! Let's wreck de fuckin place! No surrender!"

"De fleg has been took down! Before ye know it there'll be a united Ireland! Attack Short Strand! God Save The Queen!"
Fleg by OnionFleg August 9, 2013
Word of the Day on July 18, 2026
To take something small, that doesn't quite qualify as a theft. Probably from the Danish "skæv" or the Dutch "scheef", both of which are pronounced similarly, meaning "askew, or not quite right'. To change an item's ownership without permission, but only something small and of little worth.
"I skeefed an apple off the neighbor's tree." "I skeefed some chips outta your bag when you looked away." "Don't skeef my chair when I go to the bathroom."
Skeef by kachinaflonk July 16, 2026
Word of the Day on July 17, 2026

Hair spider

A tight, tangled knot of loose hair and lint that forms inside clothing during the clothes dryer cycle. It typically hides inside garments, causing an annoying lump or a phantom tickling sensation against the skin until it is found or falls out onto the floor during folding.
I was folding my clothes and a huge hair spider fell out onto my hand
Hair spider by Kmorsels July 15, 2026
Word of the Day on July 16, 2026
n. A screenshot fabricated by a company to misrepresent the graphics of a game; a combination of the words bullshit and screenshot.

Originated from Penny Arcade, a popular gaming webcomic.
-Have you seen Madden 2006 for the Xbox 360? The graphics are gonna be awesome!
-Dude, the Madden 2006 images they showed at E3 were bullshots. It doesn't look nearly as good as they said.
bullshot by Worker Unit #503,298,545 September 26, 2005
Word of the Day on July 15, 2026